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The Major Technique a Man Can Use to Improve Physical Intimacy in Marriage


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What technique can a man take to improve physical intimacy in marriage? Is there one thing that you can do? Yes, and this principle is often overlooked.

That single technique is simply to act upon your natural desire to please your wife. Today’s society sometimes makes it difficult for you to admit that you have a desire to express leadership in your home; yet, the Bible does indicate that your are to exercise such leadership.

Even though you are to exercise leadership in your home, this does not mean that your are to be a dictatorial tyrant. The Bible also says that a man lives to please his wife. Because of that, when your wife makes an effort to show respect and admiration for you, you also want to reciprocate by deferring to her wishes in as many ways as you can.

This natural desire to please your wife can lead to ways to improve physical intimacy because it will lead you to admit that there is a need in this area. Even if you are quite happy in your physical relationship, you will constantly be looking for ways to improve. The technique of desiring to please your wife will lead you to the specific information you will need.

You, like most men, may be a little rough around the edges. Your wife may be attracted to your ruggedness, but she probably, like most wives, has a great need for romance.

Since you want to please your wife, you will want to cultivate your ability to express tenderness. You also will recognize the value of touch. Most men are like microwave ovens-instantly on. Furthermore, most men are motivated by sight.

Most women are more like electric stoves-the burner starts out cool and warms gradually until it glows. Beyond that, most women are more motivated by touch than by sight.

Because of your desire to please your wife, you will work on preparing her for lovemaking by foreplay that includes tenderness and touch.

The other way this natural desire to please your wife will help you to improve physical intimacy in marriage will be to lead you to learn all you can about romance. Study your wife. What makes her smile when she watches a romantic movie? If she is reading a romantic book, ask what is taking place. If your wife indicates that she and other women find a certain man to be romantic, observe some of the things he does and says-and how he does and says those things. If your relationship is really good with your wife, ask her what she finds romantic.

Give yourself an assignment to hug your wife tenderly and kiss her several times a day. Give yourself a further assignment verbally to tell your wife that you love her and find her attractive several times during the day. Don’t worry about this being mechanical when you first start these things. After a while you will become more naturally romantic.

Acting upon your natural desire to please your wife is the major technique that will lead to other techniques to improve physical intimacy in your marriage.

(Copyright 2008 by Randy Carney) This article is based on an excerpt from a chapter in Dr. Carney’s forthcoming book, The LOVING Way to a Successful Marriage: Six Keys to Marital Bliss.

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Posted 12 April 2010 † admin § Bliss ‡ Comments Off ° Tagged: , , , ,

What Does Child Psychology Offer You?


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What is Child Psychology?

Child psychology has been accredited as one of the most successful careers of 21st century. Though, it is not very different from other branches of the same science but when it comes to practice child psychology, it means all the research work, analysis and counseling would only deal with youngsters, their behavior and nature. A child psychologist is focused on youngsters from their babyhood to adolescence, and he studies each and everything about the behavior, nature and character of a youngster to help him develop his personality.

What Can We Do Being A Child Psychologist and How?

For practicing as a child psychologist, a student has to pursue a doctorate degree in child psychology, where he can choose children and family as his major subject. Besides counseling kids and their parents, child psychologist can also work in research and development field where they work for the betterment and development of kids. They can work on various levels but their job would only be dealing with kids because when a student chooses to study child psychology as his majors, he intends to specialize in knowing and understanding kids’ behavior as well as personalities. Even though, he would be aware of adults’ psychology but his specialty would only be limited to children.

After completing a doctorate degree, one must also pursue additional courses in the respective fields as they are very helpful for acquisition of license governed by the state, which usually takes a lot of time following government rules and regulations. Moreover, these additional courses significantly enhance the worth of a child psychologist. With enough knowledge and experience, you can get several jobs with very attractive income. A child psychologist, besides practicing his services in his clinic and working in the research department, can work as school counselor, where his goal is to teach kids about their behavior and help them in sorting out their problems.

What about Professional? How Can They Enter This Field?

Though, child psychology offers very good career opportunities but everyone is not able to pursue it because of some reasons; firstly, because psychology is not an easy subject and one can only succeed with it if he has a lot of interest and secondly because majority of people who are interested in this field are unable to continue with their busy schedules and professional life. However, they can solve this problem by pursuing an online degree in child psychology. There are several universities that offer online degrees in child psychology; and anyone can get benefit from such services. Online degree in child psychology is almost 75% cheaper as compared to regular studies. But the biggest benefit is that it helps your time schedule.

The scope of child psychologists is constantly increasing and in future, this field would have a lot of respect as well as money. Interested students and professionals can easily apply for an online degree in psychology from any of the universities that offer accredited degrees. In this way, they would be able to gain a professional degree with their existing time schedules and work. Moreover, they get a very low price for the entire process of getting an online degree. So, if anyone is interested in getting an online degree in child psychology, he must apply without any delays.

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Posted 10 April 2010 † admin § Psychology ‡ Comments Off °

Ignorance Is Bliss – A Different Perspective


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We are familiar with the saying “ignorance is bliss“. We are also familiar with the surface meaning (note “surface meaning”) that not having knowledge of something is a good thing due to its lack of disturbance to the mind. I have thought of a meaning of this phrase from a different perspective. Probably this is the actual inner meaning to the phrase. All right here goes Thana’s perspective on this.

Let me inject a saying upon this saying. We know the phrase “the more we know, the more we realise that we don’t know”. Based on this phrase, we know that the more we learn new things, the more we realise that we don’t know some things. This is simply because whenever we learn something new, we come to know that that there is much more to learn. This is very much akin to an iceberg. By looking at the tip of an iceberg, we realise that there is so much more to be seen of the iceberg.

Coming back to our original phrase, by knowing something new, we come to know how ignorant we are of the depth of that subject. Hence, “ignorance is bliss” does not refer to our lack of knowledge. It ironically refers to our awareness of ignorance resulting from the knowledge of something. By having this awareness, we achieve the good feeling of bliss. Henceforth we have the meaningful phrase “ignorance is bliss“.

I hope the knowledge of this phrase from my perspective has brought bliss, if you know what I mean.

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